It’s simply because you, like every one of us, are being guided by, on one hand, social conditioning, and on the other, the deeply rooted emotional wounds that dictate our beliefs and behavior and, thus, shape our lives.
At Raising Humanity, we call this Emotional Hunger (1). It is living from the patterns developed in our earliest years, generally prior to the age of 7 years old (2).
These patterns were adopted in an attempt to preserve the love and connection we have with those around us. As children, we learn to adjust and hide parts of who we are based on feedback from those around us – not smart enough, not pretty enough, too loud, not supported for our truest selves… the list goes on and on. And these are the same patterns that drive our lives into adulthood – in relationships, in parenting, in the workplace, and much more. Unknowingly, our entire lives are based on the aspects we were not accepted and loved for as children.
The root cause of the patterns are concealed within the subconscious part of the mind, or that which is not within our immediate awareness. And yet, these exact patterns drive 95% of our adult behaviour. (3) Often, we simply believe that certain behaviours are a part of our ‘personality’ – not understanding that a personality is derived from our conditioning.
Living from this place can create very unhealthy patterns in our attempt to connect to life and love. Additionally, not understanding the root cause of why we do what we do, can lead to great confusion and frustration in our adult lives.
Furthermore, the emotional burden we took on as children in times that we were not seen, heard, and held in our pain, move with us into adulthood. We carry the weight of these unprocessed emotional experiences within the cellular memory of our body, leading not only to health issues, but also, transmission of the pain patterns to our children.
Energetically, children feel all unprocessed pain, and carry that burden with them for their lifetime ahead. This goes on until the parent decides to clear their own path, to release their children from their emotional burdens.
This is why we have created the (Re)Connection Project at Raising Humanity. We believe that with the right support, everyone should have a chance at living their best lives. Doing our own inner excavation as parents is directly correlated with raising joyful, resilient, and emotionally connected children. And we are here to help you with that - so you can make a powerful paradigm shift towards freedom, joy and a life on purpose.
Your children are here to be your teachers.
Before your children were born, you could easily avoid facing the limiting patterns within - burying the discomfort by distracting yourself with more work, more fitness, more social activity. Your children live in the truthful energy we are all born with and WILL bring attention to where you are not in your truth.
Your children will continually bring light to the unmanifested parts of you - or those you attempt to strategically hide, hoping that no one will meet the real you underneath the masks.Having to face our true selves through our children can make parenting feel like an uphill battle! They are your teachers as much as you are theirs. For this, parenting is not a role, it is a relationship to be nurtured and honoured.
How you become a better parent is by embracing work on yourself first.
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Your sense of self-worth, the way you feel about yourself and your life, and absence or presence of enoughness is the foundation for all relationships in your life - especially with your children. And as long as you are unconscious of your own pain patterns, they more than likely will be passed onto your children.
That’s why it is your personal responsibility for yourself and your children to acknowledge and start releasing your emotional pains from the past. Contrary to old paradigms, showing up for yourself is not selfish - this is the only way to be able to show up fully and support your kids and your family. Self sacrifice and lack of self regard only weakens our ability to role model for our children, just as it is as important to know and connect with the self while in a relationship with another.
Everyone has emotional pain points that date back to their earliest years, no matter how seamless their lives may appear to be.
Some may hide the pain of their patterns better than others. Some disconnect from the emotions they carry beneath the surface. All in hopes of not facing what is under the deeply rooted conditioning. Letting go of what no longer serves us as we grow is all a part of our human evolution. You are not alone and there’s a way to resolve them over time. We know just how.
What you didn’t know is that unprocessed emotional pain is stored in the subconscious and on the cellular level in the body. There are a number of tools that we know that can lead to its release and healing.
You might have tried different practices or training in the past and haven’t noticed visible lasting results.
The only program for parents that offers an immersive experience supported by a team of experts, healers and conscious coaches. Lasting change –– from the comfort of your home!
Break the cycles of disconnection and struggle in the parenting journey. Transform your parenting experience into one of meaningful connection and growth alongside your children!
If you ever find yourself thinking…
Our healing to create lasting change begins with the four dimensions of our human experience: mental, physical, emotional and spiritual.
It has to happen at a cellular memory level.
And – you don’t have to do it on your own.
In fact, group and community healing is a fundamental part of accelerated growth!
Oh, and sure, parents can “do it all”, but we guarantee you’ll nod along when we say that comes at the very serious cost of connection, meaning, ease and flow.
That’s why we created The (re)Connection Project.
So you can step into your best life and interrupt the harmful belief patterns of perfection we are transmitting to our children today!
Program curator and your key facilitator:
Hi, I’m Ashley!
Ex-perfectionist, workaholic and survivor of extreme sleep deprivation by the age of 35. Despite a seemingly perfect life, following the prescribed formula of success was no longer working for me. I was on the wheel for decades, disconnected from myself and the life around me.
Excessive fatigue and lack of inner peace plagued my life.
How could I raise my children in today’s world of excessive demands, while honouring myself through the process?
Through years of observation and study, I witnessed countless others struggling with the modern-day parenting experience, and the disconnection and unfulfillment that can ensue.
As I invested in myself honestly and leaned into my own truth, my entire life began to turn. The clarity emerged as I returned to my roots, and the transcendental practices I learned as a child.
I came to experience the joy and expansive energy that being deeply connected with our true self and authentic heart creates. I acted in ways that showed that I loved and honoured myself. The need for control and this overriding sense of having to prove myself were behind me. There was a feeling of expansiveness and growth in each experience.
This WAS the way I had been seeking.
Raising Humanity is a manifestation of the desire to share a revolutionary parenting path, and help transform lives and legacies. We all need to be heard and seen as we are, so that we can move past the old patterns that keep us from experiencing life fully. And this takes a village.
With the help of numerous experts, tools, and resources, we have created a highly curated experience for you. The (Re)Connection Project is one-of-a-kind, fully immersive and community based program. The three months of integration thereafter will ensure that you feel supported in the journey.
We trust that when we love and raise the child within ourselves, we can lead with the joy, love and freedom our children deserve to be witness to.
Each of us deserves to experience joy – this is our birthright and we are dedicated to helping you get there.
Can’t wait to see you in the village!
Love and gratitude,
Ashley Avinashi | Founder of Raising Humanity
Certified Coach Practitioner. Conscious Parenting, Dr. Shefali
Counselling Practitioner Level 1. Transpersonal Therapy, Clearmind International
Best Selling Author – Ignite Your Life For Women Leadership
You are supported by an entire ecosystem of incredible teachers, mentors, experts and healers who have walked the path. This team also includes life coaches and conscious parenting guides who will support you through the journey. Together, they offer 100s of years of combined wisdom and experience. You will feel very well supported during what can be a life-altering journey for those who truly commit to it!
Our top level experts have been hand picked from around the globe, to help you move through the process efficiently and safely. They bring you high level guidance in the areas of energetic healing, breathwork, deep meditation, naturopathy and more.
The experiential part of this program is key for lasting change. You no longer have to take time away from your children and travel to access it! We bring it right to you.
During week 1, you will learn how to get the most out of this journey:
Module 1 – Evolution
During week 2-3 you will learn:
Module 2 – Emotional Awareness
During week 4-6 you will learn:
Module 3 – Authentic Love and Connection
During week 7-8 you will learn:
Module 4 – Truth
During week 9 you will learn:
Module 5 – Parent-Child
During week 10-11 you will learn:
Module 6 – Integration
During week 12 you will learn:
1. One-stop-shop program for parents’ transformation
We know how difficult it can be to find the right coaches, healers or modalities that serves you well. And how disappointing it is to get the most out of it, and still feel like there’s something missing or that the results don’t last. This process could cost you a great deal of time, energy and investment. At Reconnection Projects, we did this work for you.
We combine a comprehensive program curriculum, community, integration and experiential processes with industry experts that collectively bring 100s of years of experience and wisdom working with different modalities into one space.
2. Experiential Processing
We understand how frustrating it can be to work to create change and not see the results. We have come to see how limiting change can be at the mind level. As much as we seek to shift our patterns by believing we are capable, the mind typically wants us to live by what is comfortable, familiar and safe.
The root of our patterns are most often buried in our subconscious. Nearly 95% of our patterning is buried here from our earliest years, and so, not within our immediate awareness. This is why we have brought experts in to help assess what is beneath the surface of our knowing, to create change from the root of the behaviour rather than focus on the symptoms. This approach is key to lasting results.
3. Authentic community
Many parents are struggling with very similar issues feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, yet so often they feel misunderstood and isolated. It’s not easy to share your doubts and fears in the society that expects you to be strong and have it all figured out.
In the (Re)Connection project, we bring together parents who have been on their personal-growth journey and are ready to dive even deeper. Here, you don’t have to wear masks or put effort towards pretending. Together we create a safe space that encourages vulnerability and showing up as you are, which is necessary for real growth. A space for connection, support and learning from each other as we all have one common goal - to let go of limitations and live our best lives. For ourselves and our children.
4. Quantum healing framework
The impact of being witnessed by another in our growth is tremendous. The impact of being witnessed by many creates allowances for ourselves that we may not have in a lifetime of trying to do it on our own.
Through our group processes and the online forum, you will witness many others going through their journeys too. Often the mind cannot differentiate what we have personally experienced from what we have witnessed when we are connecting at a deeper level to self and other! This invites you to face what they are allowing for themselves - giving you permission to do the same. Quantum leaps are possible when we move through our experiences in a group setting, as we do in this program.
5. Continuous integration
How many times have you’ve been to a seminar where you got a ton of insights and realizations? You thought, this is it! My life will never be the same - just to come back to your routine and realize that you couldn’t resist your old habit patterns. The change can happen instantly - the challenge is to internalize it and incorporate your new way of thinking and behaving into your daily life.
At The (Re)Connection project, we understand the importance of integration. We know that only by integration we can ensure lasting change. That’s why we emphasize the importance of going through the program from the comfort of your home - alongside your family. Having a combination of available informational resources, live group sessions and community forums as well as one-on-one coaching sessions to hold your hand every step of the way during the program and even when it ends. That’s why we have a 3-months post program integration support for every member of the community.
1. Cohorts begin once a quarter with limited spots. By application only
2. Weekly experiential sessions with experts
3. 1-on-1 calls with life and conscious parenting coaches
4. A 12 week curriculum of teachings, videos, exercises, and toolkits
5. A commitment of minimum 3-5 hours a week for the weekly deep dives and related exercises.
Note that the more invested you are in the process, the greater your results.
6. Private members forum
7. An accountability partner for weekly check ins and deepening connection
8. Access to a resource directory
9. Three months of integration support after the program
Because we believe in the positive impact of The (Re)Connection Project for our students, we back it up with a risk-free guarantee.
We expect The (re)Connection Project participants to show up for themselves – to work through the course content and take advantage of the live support and group healing.
If, after committing to doing this work, you don’t feel we’ve delivered value, email our support team within two weeks of the start of the course, and we’ll issue you a full refund, less a $500 processing fee.
You are an important part of your cohort, so your absence will be missed by fellow participants once the program has begun. These guidelines help us honor the integrity and sacred container we are developing for you as best as possible.
Raising Humanity created so many amazing shifts for my wife and I.We became more aware of the trauma that was being triggered, the wounds that needed healing, and the beliefs that needed to be further unpacked and transformed.
Humanity is hungry for soulful, conscious leaders as Ashley.
Ashley understands the conscious parenting path to a profound degree. She is one of the wisest, most loving, visionary leaders in this arena that I have had the honor of meeting. She is extremely passionate about awakening one's inner authentic truth with self love. Her very presence is inspiring to all who know her.
Her personal journey of self-healing has deepened her understanding and appreciation of what is needed to create wholeness within. Ashley's conscious loving parenting of her two sweet boys is an inspiration to all of us parents. She is caring, supportive and authentic. Leaders like Ashley are the change we need in this world. I am so excited to be part of this Tribe with her.
Ashley has taught me ways to reconnect with my kids on a deeper level.
From the moment I met Ashley, she had this insatiable calming energy that was needed in my life. I've lived in the hustle vortex, building out multiple businesses and through my success I was missing out on the most important thing, my children.
Ashley has taught me ways to reconnect with my kids on a deeper level, without yelling and being stressed all the time. Through her guidance I've become more conscious and lovable in my approach. I'm so grateful for her wisdom and helping me deepen my relationship with my family and bring peace back into my life.
I highly recommend this program to anyone wanting a meaningful and positive change in their lives.
It has been truly astonishing to witness Ashley's personal growth. She has made this a priority for the sake of herself and her children. She has been a great inspiration for me and a motivation to work on myself after seeing all of the beautiful changes in her life.
This is THE program for personal growth and a better relationship with our children and everyone else in our lives. This is one decision you won't regret! Go with an open heart and be ready to see yourself change into the person you always knew you could be.
Ashley speaks from her heart.
She is truly gifted in her writing and teaching. Her insight resonates with my inner being so much. I am so excited to see where this experience and community will take us. I am so thankful Ashley is speaking out about something that is so very important. May this help parenthood evolve into what is meant to be.
Ashley is a gifted visionary and fit leader.
From the experience of her own journey in connecting the heart, mind and soul, comes such wisdom and profound knowledge. Ashley has put her entire essence into creating the most incredible platform to support parents (and others), leading the way with such charisma and flair.
Kind and conscientious are two of the first words that come to mind when I think of Ashley.
She puts deep care into everything she does, and she chooses to be present. Ashley is curious and humble, always seeking the lesson, listening deeply, honouring all perspectives, and finding ways to make things better for the collective. Ashley lovingly holds space for both adults and children to have their own experience, and this is the freedom I believe we all want. She is in her Dharma, in service to humanity, rooting all she does in so much love.
"I am blown away by the power of The Reconnection Project. It is, indeed, the most powerful process I have been allowing myself to open up to. In all my extended inner work, as a parent and human being, I have not yet come across something as opening and healing as this course. All the processes that happened in this safe container, have brought me and all the members here, through enormous breakthroughs. I learned my biggest blockage was that I was not good enough, not significant enough. I felt small and insignificant and denied all abundance that was wanting to come into my life. In a very short period of time, I had the chance to grow and get to the next level in my self discovery and growth. All my relationships, including the one with my son, have gone to the next level and I am now more open to understanding and accepting the people that I love, including ME! As a parent and avid learner of self, I cannot recommend this experience enough!"
If you feel that you’ve tried the books, the podcasts, perhaps even a few workshops or self taught courses, or are simply overwhelmed with the amount of resources out there, then we encourage you to dive in. This program has been designed for those who are ready for real change.
In this one space, we combined many essential ingredients of a successful healing or growth journey. We have identified where the many gaps are as we try and piece it together ourselves. Many components make this journey more powerful than any other parenting process available online, including experiential processes, access to authentic community and ongoing integration.
We trust it will for you, as it has for many others. As we ourselves shift, the by product is healthier relationships with those around us as a result of our willingness to live more aligned to our true worth, and connect from that place. As the experience has intentionally been created for the home space to allow for you to continue to integrate shifts into your everyday life, your family will see your progress as it takes place.
The outcome of the program depends on your willingness to show up to do work and surrender to the process. The more you can let go of what you thought you knew, and make space for the new, the more can be created anew in your life.
We incorporate conscious coaching, deep healing through multiple modalities and transpersonal psychology all into one space. 75% of the program is also experiential, so it can help move past the limitations of the mind that talk therapy or self guided programs are directed towards. Due to the combination of elements in a curated program such as this one, we have seen drastically more accelerated progress in this program than witnessing those who may be relying on one medium of growth.
The support team is comprised of expert healers and guides, along with certified conscious parenting coaches. Together, 100’s of years of wisdom is brought into one space to accelerate the journey back to your true self. You will feel fully supported in your journey.
Your awareness level and your subconscious patterns will start shifting from the first module onwards. In the first few weeks, you will come into heightened awareness as to just how we evolve as humans, and the reason for the struggle in our parent-child relationship. The outcomes only build over time. Many members have seen significant shifts within the first few weeks of the program!
While attending as many of our experiential calls as possible (featuring group energetic healing) are highly recommended to experience all the benefits to you, we still record every call for you to catch up on later.
We totally get that everyone learns and opens up in different ways! That’s exactly why you’ll be assigned a private parenting coach who you will be able to have 1:1 calls with throughout the 12 weeks.
We would love to see you stay with the curriculum weekly as each module builds upon the next, but we understand that life happens! We’ll have a buffer week halfway through the program to allow for rest and any catch-up time, and all learning will be recorded and available online. Move through it all as you are able!
We are so confident that this community based platform will exceed your expectations that we offer a risk-free guarantee. If you have committed fully and still feel that the program has not delivered value to you, we will credit you for your program fees (minus a $500 processing fee) within two weeks of beginning the course.
When you invest in yourself through our work, you’re also creating meaningful change in the world. Because with every program you purchase, you support clean water access for more families in need.THANK YOU